Last night in Delhi, on the way to the airport. Mixed Emotions about coming home!
Hi everyone.
Well, it's been another long day or so. We LOVED Haridwar with its crisp clean air, beautiful rocks, walk-able paths, and, of course, the green, green Ganges running through it. We wandered down to the river upon arrival...to be greeted by Indian students who were also on a trip. How many photos can we take of one another? A LOT!
Some of the BU SOCIOLOGY majors headed away from the group (what's new, right?) and we found a lovely little beach complete with beach cow and beach dog. It was fun to stick our toes in the water but, brrr…. cold! After lunch, many of the women enjoyed getting their hands hennaed and we all did a bit of shopping as we walked around town. After a lovely and relaxed afternoon, it was off to the ghats for a night-time deepmala ceremony and more time shopping at the local market. Oh, the stories I could tell! But, heck, I'm tired, so I'll let your sons/daughters tell you about their adventures that night.
We had an early night back at the hotel (9pm) so we could pack and have dinner. Have you ever heard of room service calling you back and saying "The mac and cheese is bad for you. Your order has been canceled?" Well, such things happen in India as Marti, Heather, and Taylor can attest. Again, good spirits prevailed although, sadly, back up room service didn't make it!
Today we left Haridwar for Delhi and a visit to the lovely B'ahai temple. Shaped like a giant lotus, it's hard to believe something could be so solid yet so light and airy. Too much to say about this so I’ll try to let pictures (or students) do the talking. We make a fast stop at McDonalds and S'barro. The food many of us never eat--scoff at, even--suddenly tasted like a bit of heaven. (Do I hear a haiku ode to french fries, anyone?) I think this means we must be ready to go home? Then, we made a stop at Fab India where, even I the non-shopper shopped. I'm not sure, but I think it's India's equivalent to Old Navy!
After one last dinner and a send off from our guide, Raj, students headed back into the bus on their way to the airport. (If all goes well, I'll post pictures of the day soon...but will probably need some settling time. Who knows what kind of airport wireless there is, so don’t be nervous if you don’t hear anything until folks are back in the states on the 9th.)
So, so much to say about this trip, but I really must go now. I do want to send a special shout out to the sociology majors who wrote me such funny, wonderful, haiku. You really cannot know what this gesture--and you--mean to me. Thanks for helping me have such a great time in India. And, for pushing me to be better as we do the work that we do.
Finally, special thanks to Maggie Monteverde for all her help getting our trip organized. (You cannot believe the effort she gives to this task. Really, she is an unsung hero!) To Paul Chenoweth for helping make this blog happen and to the UMAC folks (April, Jennifer) for getting the word out!! To Raj, our guide, as well as our driver and “helper” who made sure we got where we were going and who kept us safe and comfortable. To Geeta at New Age Travel who arranged our trip and who helped me, personally, tonight. (Thanks, Geeta!!!) To everyone at CCSA, especially Robin who was always so helpful and prompt and to Suzanne who helped us all with our travel (and, especially mine!). And, of course, how could we do any of it without Mike Klembara? We couldn’t! Thanks to my Associate Dean (Thom Storey), Dean (Bryce Sullivan), our President (Bob Fisher), and everyone else (including parents!!!) who support study abroad at Belmont. India is a tough country to travel, but it is so, so beautiful in so many ways. This trip has changed our lives and we hope we can show you how in the months to come. (Look for a VISUAL SOCIOLOGY dvd and convocation coming soon.)
Now we can say we’ve gone from here to India!
PS: Look for a few student blogs in the coming days...once they are settled in.





That evening we went out on a boat and watched many things happening on shore. Varanasi is a holy city in India with many cremation cites. Ashes and candles are places in the water after cremation. Everyone in our group lit a candle and sent it floating down the river in honor of a wish or someone's life. Every evening along the Ganges the ceremonies are concluded with prayer and music. we watched this through a layer of fog and listened to the bells being rung--the whole experience was surreal. I think it will take a while for what we witnessed to really set in.
Yesterday we got to spend a few more hours in a market, which was just so great. I didn't buy anything; I'm still getting along just fine with my Punjabi suits that I bought (hand tailored) at the last bazaar. Earlier that morning we went to mother Theresa's home, and we played with the kids and met some of the beautiful people who stay there. I'm glad it's there, but by American standards it was a medical nightmare. Wonderful but heartbreaking. Exactly why I'm going into nursing. More later…





Coming up, we will be attending some Hindu ceremonies on the Ganges River, both at sunrise and sunset (in which some of us might be taking a spiritual dip in the river) and a few other adventures. Stay tuned.

It is impossible to come across this level of desperation and not beg the question of where the cause lies. In the US, we look upon the poor and the homeless with disdain. It seems evident that their current condition is a consequence of their choices. If only they had worked harder, stayed sober, held their job, etc. We are content to pawn the consequences upon the individual. The larger social trends that create such poverty are often left in the dark, unexplored. Here in India they are impossible to ignore. The level of poverty is obviously the result of a structural flaw and the government's inability to meet the needs of the people. (And, according to a fellow classmate, it may also be in part due to U.S. policies, such as those concerning rice subsidies to US farmers.) Although I am currently unaware of the complex root causes of this poverty, I am committing myself to finding the answers.
