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Home Visits


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Today was a very eye opening day for Diane, Julia, and myself as we did HIV home visits with the hospital’s social worker. Before heading to the homes we stopped at the market to buy apples and sardines for the families to eat. I feel that out of the homes we visited the first was the most heart wrenching. I would not even consider the first home a home but a shack. It was a bamboo plank raised off the ground with different plastic pieces of trash connected as a roof. One family’s 6x6 area was connected to the next family’s area. We arrived to a mother who was 25 and has AID. At home with her was her 10 year old son who does not have HIV, her 17 month old daughter who has HIV, and her 7 month old daughter who has HIV. The father was at work making $2.50 per day. As I looked around at their “house” I was blown away. I just could not believe that a family of five could live in such a small rundown space. We have tool sheds in America that are more stable than their home. I was also astonished to learn that they pay $25 a month to rent it! Words and pictures do not even begin to describe how sad their situation is. The social worker began to explain to us that the mother also has TB. She is on the hospitals DOTS program which means she must come to the outpatient clinic everyday for someone to directly observe her take her TB medication. However, she does not regularly make it to the clinic so her children have now all acquired TB as well. Also, the 10 year old boy had to stop going to school because it cost $10 a month and they could not afford for him to continue to attend. This made all three of us very sad because we knew without and education he has barely any opportunity to better his future living conditions. Our other visits were much like the first and we left feeling emotionally drained and wishing we could do more than give apples and sardines.
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On a different note I know that our trip to the village is coming close and we are all very excited. We know that God has something very special to show us because there have been so many doors opened for us. However, there are still a few things we are not sure about and I would like to ask everyone to please pray for everything to fall into place the way God has planned and help us to trust in him.
We miss everyone at home and want you to know that your comments brighten our days and greatly encourage us and your continual prayers are needed.

Matthew 17:20 “The simple truth is that if you had a mere kernel of faith, a poppy seed, say, you would tell this mountain, ‘Move!’ and it would move. There is nothing you wouldn’t be able to tackle.”

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Comments

Your trip is quite an eye-opening experience, for all of us. Thank you for sharing with us here at home. You are making a difference in many lives and in many ways. Be assured that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Be safe.

Diane,
You guys are amazing! That must be so hard to see such suffering. I'm sure just your smile and your tender care makes their days brighter. Just keep bringing God's love to everyone you encounter. He has called you for a purpose and will continue to use you to be a blessing. Our prayers are constantly with you all!
Love,
Cecillia and John

Stefani - I am so touched by your description of what you are seeing. I know your presence is a blessing to these families you visited.
All of you are in my thoughts and prayers.

jane

Dear group, Thanks especially to Stefani for being so open about the recent experiences. I know you all went on this journey with open hearts, and now God is particularly requiring open eyes, ears and minds to take it all in and use it in a positive way. It would be easy and understandable to be immobilized by the despair over what you're seeing and the limitations of what you can do. Remember the power of your presence and what your words to us here in our cocoon of comfort can do. The longest, hardest journey starts with that first step. Blessings to all of you!

Leslie Higgins

Stefani and team,
I am so proud of the work you all are doing, it is God's work! The entry today was heart-wrenching. We do not realize how fortunate we are until something like that is called to our attention.
Stef, I miss you so much! Noelton is lonely!
Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers!
Mary Katherine Mercer
"Scouts Honor"-Stef

Julia,
I can't even tell you how proud I am of you. Being the person you are, I know it must be particularly difficult for you at times to be there and see what you are seeing. I'm sure the desire to help, to make things better and easier must be completely overwhelming. I know that you are learning so much and this trip is forever changing you and how you view the world. I can't wait to have you back here, we all REALLY miss you!, but I am so happy that you are having this experience : ) I love you very much! The kids miss you too, "da cuz they LOVE you so much too!!!" (direct quote from Bella : ) ML

Stef and team-
Since MK posted I figured I would too. Didnt know until now if it was only for family or what... Stef, that post sounds unreal I was thinking to myself how I wish I could just whip out some cash, jump thru the computer screen and hand it to you for that family. I needed a reminder today of all the blessings God has bestowed on me/us. Thank you for your words. Sounds like yall are absolutely being the hands and feet of Jesus over there! I am so proud of you all! Thank you for your hard work! I am going to be praying even harder for you guys and your trip to the village specifically! Love you Stef! Cant wait to see you in a couple of weeks!

It must be quite heartwarming
for those persons you visit to have your kind, sharing, caring, and warm best wishes extended upon their behalf. If I were sick & destitute, my spirits would be uplifted to have you pay me a visit and show your concern. You are touching their lives in a similar manner in which our Lord touched the lives of those less fortunate. Just being present in the moment when someone needs you can mean so much. Our prayers for your own spirits & wellbeing continue. God bless you and give you everything you need for this wonderful mission.
Diane, I wish you the best.
Love,
Mom

Stephani and rest of the Cambodian Mission Team, as Mary Katherine Mercer stated the situation of many of these HIV patients and their families is heart-wrenching. It is also maddening when considering a government that can not provide for nor assist their citizens in the areas of healthcare or education. There are so many needs. Everywhere you look. We don't dare look away but keep doing everything we can. You all are awesome in my book.

Stef and Team,
What an eye-opening description of your home visits. I have visited such places and know that it is heartbreaking. However, I also know that each of you brings happiness and the love of God to each family. You are each His Instrument. Our prayers are with all of you daily.
Chris Algren

Dear ones, thank you for your reports and my prayers continue with you. Yes, the poorest people here in the U.S. look rich compared to the folks you describe.
Ruby Dunlap

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