Yesterday and today our smaller groups have gone our separate ways, one group to Kamahalo, another to Holy Cross Hospice, and my group went to SOS. We are all taking part in different activities and offering help to these organizations in any way, shape and form. It is incredible to see first hand the SOS orphanage which houses well over 200 children. There are sixteen houses on the grounds and the kids are divided among them into what I would consider their family unit complete with a house mom and aunt.
Today while playing with some of the kids I had an opportunity to talk with a few of the older girls, one age 12 and one 13. These girls were holding young babies and not playing with the younger kids since they seemed to be more of the mother figures themselves. I asked how long they had been at the orphanage, the first said three years the other two. They both said they loved being at SOS and were thankful to have such a good home. I was so humbled while talking to them. I did not want to pry too much into their past or bring up any bad memories, but it seemed like they understood the alternative lifestyle and knew that SOS was a much better option. I then began to think back to our tour with the leader of the orphanage, Mr Bikie Morebodi, when he said that a number of children were HIV/AIDS positive. He didn’t give an exact number, but looking around I knew that there must have been at least a few of these children who may be struggling with these diseases, and I cannot imagine what that would be like. For a few minutes I sat and just thought about those poor children and realized that I honestly cannot imagine what life is like for any of them, HIV positive or not.
I know we care about these children, I certainly care about the girls I met today and want to help them, but can that be enough to actually make a difference? At one of our class discussions back at the team house someone mentioned that hopefully we can start a ripple effect. However, if we are throwing pebbles into the water and that is what starts the ripple outward, what happens when we leave and quit tossing in the pebbles? For me this brings an answer that I must continue to try helping these children after I am gone. In Belmont’s international department, Mrs. Kathy Skinner always says, “If you haven’t been transformed then you haven’t studied abroad.” Well, I think the transformation has been taking place, and I pray that we all decide to do something beneficial with what we’ve been witnessing around us.
One lesson we should all take away is that of the genuine generosity and hospitality of the people here. The group working at Holy Cross has not been eating lunch with the rest of the group these past days, because the people at the preschool where they are serving insist upon fixing them food every day they come to do work. Despite the fact that the Holy Cross often struggles to provide food for their patients, they have found no trouble in providing food for our group every day. This has been hard information for the group to know, because they do not need the food, and other people do. At the same time, how can the group reject the hospitality of these people who want to give back to us? We feel like we are doing so little, but they are so thankful we are simply showing up in the morning that they make sure we are fully aware of their gratitude by sharing what little they do have with us. The people at Holy Cross emanate the word ubuntu, the essence of being human, or as Desmond Tutu explains, “My humanity is caught up, is inextricably bound up in yours.” How much more peaceful would the world be if only each of us could adopt this desire to share however much or little we are given with the people around us?